To Live IndependentlyPosted: March 27, 2007
After we got married, we decided to stay for the moment at my husband’s house. We are “living” on my husband’s room so to speak. Actually, its not his idea. The situation is a bit complicated. But anyway, we both think that we need to live independently. My in-laws are both telling us that its hard to live independently. I don’t hear it as straight as I have written it but, with the way they give their advice, its being spelled out that way. That we cannot do it.
But good news! I have been bad. I asked our tenants to move out from our (my parent’s house) place. We have this small room with its own bath and kitchen that is separated from the main house. I felt bad for them but my sanity is at stake here. I used to feel at home at their house. I feel very at home. But right before my eyes, something’s changed in my husband. And I saw that its bad. How bad? Let’s just say something’s different from the man I used to know in a short period of time. I don’t want to talk ill of others as I know I will regret it in the future.
Anyway, back to the good news. Our tenants told us that they will move out of the house soonest. Yippee! (I’m really sorry but that’s I’m really desperate). I can’t wait until I lay my hands on the corner. I don’t care if we won’t be able to have a sofa to sit on or where shall we hang our clothes, the important thing is, we are started somewhere. 🙂 We can do it as long as we are together.